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Meet Red Cross Donut Dollie Ellen Cadden Nagy
Published April 28, 2017 by Jim

Meet Red Cross Donut Dollie Ellen Cadden Nagy

In our ninth edition of the Donut Dollie Detail, Ellen Cadden Nagy tells how coming from a military family and wanting to see and experience the war up close led her to becoming a Donut Dollie, details the “close calls” she experienced, and explains the challenges of visiting wounded soldiers at the hospital on Monkey Mountain.

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Please meet Red Cross Donut Dollie Ellen Cadden Nagy…

What prompted you to join the SRAO (Supplemental Recreation Activities Overseas) and want to go to Vietnam?

I had been out of college for 2 years and wanted to do something more meaningful with my life. I went to the University of Georgia and majored in Journalism in 1968. I had read extensively about the Vietnam War and wanted to see/experience it up close myself. And, of course, the war was on the nightly news every day, as well as student unrest and protest. I had come from a military family (as many of the Donut Dollies were), my father was an officer in the Army. My dad died when I was 11; he had served in WWII in the European theatre. I felt the Red Cross was a way to serve my country.

When and where were you stationed in Vietnam? Did you go by a nickname?

I was stationed in Vietnam in 1970-1971 at Bien Hoa (1970), Da Nang (1970-71) and Long Binh (1971). I was known as Ellen Cadden at the time.

What was a routine day like in Vietnam?

My first assignment in July 1970 was in Bien Hoa (Army) with a small center, base runs/programming (Army and Air Force), and forward runs (Army, Navy). The center was open till later at night, can’t remember but maybe till 10:00 PM. There was kool aid, coffee and coffee cake available. This was a small center and had a few game tables and (1 or 2) pool tables. This was a small unit of 6 DD’s and we lived in a Quonset hut. We once programmed to an entire ship from the dock at Vung Tau and then later served lunch from the galley – It was over 100 degrees, but it was a terrific run!

Da Nang Sept 1970 – March 1971, unit of 12 DD’s. This was one of the largest units in country. We programmed to Army, Navy, and Marines (until the Marines went home in December of 1970). Two girls flew to Quang Tri from Monday afternoon till Friday each week – from there we went to forward units close to the DMZ. Some time in 1971, they opened a unit in Quang Tri. The Red Cross Center, a very large building with two game rooms (pool tables and foosball tables), a music room, a library, coffee, kool aid and coffee cake counter was on Freedom HiIl and with Special Services, USO, a post office and PX. The center was only open during the day – Freedom Hill closed at 5:00 PM. We had base runs and flew to fire bases/LZ’s all over the mountain region. We first lived at Camp Baxter in what was once a hospital and nurse’s quarters. In late 1970 or January of 1971 we moved to the headquarters of XXIV Corp and lived in a two story base housing type building.

Long Binh 1971, this was only a forward unit. There had been a center earlier in the war. I actually liked the mix of a center and forward runs better. This unit was only 6 girls and we lived in trailers.

I never served donuts nor did we take coffee and donuts on any runs when I was there (that I remember). But, we did serve meals in mess halls; Thanksgiving 1970 two of us were on a firebase near the DMZ and served a special meal sent from their headquarters.

Many days we were up at the crack of dawn and at the heliport waiting to be picked up for the day. We often did not return until nearly dark – long, hot days. We would be back up the next day, happy and ready to go again!

Did you ever have any “close calls” either on base or in any vehicles?

On a firebase on a run out of Da Nang, the firebase took incoming and there was a fire fight. They called in gunships, and we were evacuated immediately. One night in Quang Tri there was incoming and we had to go to a bunker for several hours – it was cold and monsoon. On a jeep run outside of Da Nang we were fired on and got down on the floor of the open jeep.

 

Were you ever injured while in Vietnam?

No injuries. I felt safe with our military support.

What was it like to visit the soldiers in the hospitals?

The only hospital experience I ever had was at the hospital on Monkey Mountain. The hospital doctors asked for volunteers to come and see the critically injured men after surgery and before shipping out to Japan for extended recovery before going stateside. So on a day off, Sara Porter and I went (I don’t remember who else went that day, but there was just a few of us). The men just out of surgery were so badly injured and we were not equipped to witness these type of injuries. We were told “we could not cry under any circumstances” and that our reaction would set the tone for them in their recovery process and how their families would see them. Men were missing limbs (many hands, arms and legs), eyes, parts of their faces, and brain injuries. They would say they could not feel their hand or arm or leg and ask if they were still there. I felt like my heart was ripped out. We did not cry until we left. Hospital visits were not part of our programming when I was there. I see from other DD’s earlier in the war, that it was a regular occurrence.

How was the transition returning home to the United States?

It was very difficult coming home after being in Vietnam. Vietnam became your world. No one was really interested in hearing about my experience. The only thing people were interested in was ending the war. I married a GI I met when I first came in-country to Bien Hoa. We have been married for 46 years (he now has non-Hodgkins Lymphoma – Mantle Cell Lymphoma associated with Agent Orange). We both still get a familiar feeling/rush when we hear a helicopter or see a C130. In 2013, my husband and I went back to Vietnam. My husband didn’t really care about going, but it was healing for me. The cities are thriving – Saigon, Da Nang is amazing, the beaches have 5 star resorts, but the countryside is little changed with the exception that everyone has a cell phone and so many scooters. It is very interesting that there is a revival of interest in the Vietnam War and the untold story of the 627 Red Cross women that served with our brothers.

What would you like people to remember and understand most about the women who served?

It was a privilege to be there and contribute in some small way. To bring a smile and talk with the young boys – really mostly 18 and 19 year olds. They shared their stories of home, laughed at our silly games, and looked forward to hopefully seeing us again. They shared their rations of cold sodas on beastly hot days. They were in awe that we came to be with them – “round eyes.” I never regretted a day that I went, just wish I had gone even earlier. The war was beginning to wind down the latter part of 1970. The experience was the same, but different over the years. The bond between DD’s was and is very special. After all these years family is more interested than ever before and want me to talk to them about my experiences. I share two CDs that I have – “A Touch of Home’ and “A.K.A Donut Dollies.” Those give a glimpse of what we did. I just recently showed “A Touch of Home” to my sister-in-law and brother-in-law; they both cried and apologized that they never asked before. I had hundreds of slides that I threw away about 8 years ago because I really felt no one was interested in the DD story or cared, so in a cleaning moment I threw them all out – I regret it now.

How do you feel Veterans think of your time having served with them? Have any Veterans expressed their feelings to you directly?

I am married to a Vietnam Vet and vet friends that experienced programming are very appreciative; however, some never saw a DD and didn’t know we existed.

What were your fondest or most interesting memories of your time serving in Vietnam?

In December 1970 Bob Hope came to Da Nang and my now husband was able to get an in-country R&R and came up. We were able to see it together. I wish I had written all the DD’s names down everywhere I was stationed. I also wish I had journaled my experience because after nearly 50 years I can’t remember things I wish I could.

Another memory was from an Army vs Navy touch football game that was organized by some men for patients at the hospital. DD’s, Special Services and USO gals were cheerleaders. I participated as a cheerleader for the Army who won 32-0. The patients that could come outside were able to be spectators. It was great fun.

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Published April 26, 2017 by Jim

The Women Who Fried Donuts and Dodged Bombs on the Front Lines of WWI

Recently on Smithsonian.com, they featured an interesting article about the history of the “Donut Lassies”, women who volunteered through the Salvation Army during Work War I.  We thank Red Cross Donut Dollie Holly Van Fleet for sharing this article on where the Donut Dollie story began.

The Women Who Fried Donuts and Dodged Bombs on the Front Lines of WWI

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Meet Red Cross Donut Dollie Diane Schmidt Curley
Published April 21, 2017 by Jim

Meet Red Cross Donut Dollie Diane Schmidt Curley

In our eighth edition of the Donut Dollie Detail, Diane Schmidt Curley tells how she learned of the Donut Dollie program from a magazine article; shares memories of playing games and talking with the soldiers on firebases, and tells how coming home was made easier by her family, friends and Howard Kalt of Kalt’s Restaurant in Milwaukee.

Please share the Donut Dollie Detail with family, friends and veterans you may know, and make sure to like/follow us on Facebook to learn when the next edition is posted.  You can also share your email address with us at list@donutdollies.com for updates on the upcoming release of the Donut Dollies Documentary (we will not share/sell your email and will only use it for Donut Dollie related updates).

Please meet Red Cross Donut Dollie Diane Schmidt Curley…

What prompted you to join the SRAO (Supplemental Recreation Activities Overseas) and want to go to Vietnam?

I went to Vietnam because I had just graduated from college and wanted to do something interesting and meaningful. It was 1968 and the Vietnam war was on everyone’s minds.   That summer, 1968, I had just graduated from college.  I was reading a magazine (Cosmopolitan) which had an article on types of programs which needed women.  I believe it was nursing, military, and the Red Cross.  The Red Cross seemed perfect for me.  I called the number in the article and the man who answered the phone said he would like to interview me in person.  I went to St. Louis where I was accepted into the program.

When and where were you stationed in Vietnam?  Did you go by a nickname?

I was stationed at Cam Ranh Bay from 9/68-1/69.  From there I went to Chu Lai until the end of my tour (10/69).  I also spent a week TDY at Pleiku.  I had no nickname and was known as Diane Schmidt then.

What was a routine day like in Vietnam?

As far as a typical day… I remember they were very busy. We got up around 4:30 or 5 sometimes.  We flew in choppers out to the firebases.  When we got there.. we did programming.  We played games with the men and talked to them.  Also gave out Kool aid.  Sometimes we ate with them. On weekends we visited hospitals sometimes and also worked in the recreation center where we would talk to the men.

Did you ever have any “close calls” either on base or in any vehicles?

I never had any close calls.  A few times we saw tracer bullets fly close to the chopper on our early morning (predawn) flights.  On base when they yelled “incoming” we went to our bunkers.

Were you ever injured while in Vietnam?

I was never injured in Vietnam.

What was it like to visit the soldiers in the hospitals?

Visiting the soldiers in hospitals was hard but so appreciated by the men.  Most of them were so young.

How was the transition returning home to the United States?

Transitioning home was very easy for me.  My friends and family were very happy to see me.  There were about 50 family members waiting at the airport for me.  My aunt Marion had a big sub sandwich for me and they had a big 4 foot high picture of me with balloons all around it.  My previous employer, Howard Kalt from Kalt’s Restaurant in Milwaukee let me return to my waitressing job right away. My friends had a place for me to stay.  I was very fortunate.

What would you like people to remember and understand most about the women who served?

What I would like people to know about the women who served is that we were very fortunate to have that opportunity and we tried our best to bring a little happiness to the men who served.

 

How do you feel Veterans think of your time having served with them? Have any Veterans expressed their feelings to you directly?

I think the veterans appreciated us alot.  Many have expressed this.

What were your fondest or most interesting memories of your time serving in Vietnam?

My best memories of Vietnam was the appreciation from the men, the support from the Red Cross, and also the support from my family and friends.  My mother mailed a live Christmas tree from Wisconsin and we had a really good Christmas with homemade cookies and Usingers sausage.  Also the mess sergeants were great to us.  Also in Cam Ranh Bay the guys would go out to the sea and catch huge lobsters for us.  All in all… it was a great very memorable year for me and even though we worked very hard every day… we always felt so appreciated.

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Published April 19, 2017 by Jim

Calling all Red Cross Donut Dollies Who Served In Korea And Vietnam

As you’ll learn from our Facebook page and on this website we are working towards completion of a documentary on the Red Cross Donut Dollies. If you are a Donut Dollie or your know someone who is, we would like to ask for participation in our weekly feature, the Donut Dollie Detail.

We are seeking responses to 10-questions, as well as the sharing of 4 photographs from each Donut Dollie, in an effort to document and share their experiences of serving in Korea and Vietnam. To take part, please contact us at memories@donutdollies.com and we will send along the 10-questions list and details about our project.

We thank each Donut Dollie for their service and we look forward to their participation in the the Donut Dollie Detail.

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Meet Red Cross Donut Dollie Mary de la Forest-Evans
Published April 14, 2017 by Jim

Meet Red Cross Donut Dollie Mary de la Forest-Evans

In our seventh edition of the Donut Dollie Detail, Mary de la Forest-Evans tells about her time serving in Vietnam, why the lure of travel and wanting to go “where all the action is” sealed the Donut Dollie deal for her, and how her “Wheels” program was not only fun, but bloody, due to the soldier’s competitive spirit.

Please share the Donut Dollie Detail with family, friends and veterans you may know, and make sure to like/follow us on Facebook to learn when the next edition is posted.  You can also share your email address with us at list@donutdollies.com for updates on the upcoming release of the Donut Dollies Documentary (we will not share/sell your email and will only use it for Donut Dollie related updates).

Please meet Red Cross Donut Dollie Mary de la Forest-Evans…

What prompted you to join the SRAO (Supplemental Recreation Activities Overseas) and want to go to Vietnam?

I joined the Red Cross as much for my desire to travel as for patriotic motives.   I had spent my junior year in Paris and travelled extensively in Europe.  I knew I wanted to travel more and not have my dear parents foot the bill. I knew the Red Cross was international.  I telephoned the San Francisco office and said, “Hello, my name is Mary de la Forest.   I am 23 years old and I have a degree in French.  Do you have opportunities abroad?”  I was invited in and six weeks later I was on my way to D.C. for orientation.  When asked if I had a preference for Vietnam or Korea I immediately replied “Vietnam – that is where all the action is.”  I have no idea why I said that!

When and where were you stationed in Vietnam? Did you go by a nickname?

I was stationed in Vietnam June 1968 to February 1969.  My tour was cut short as my father died suddenly.  I was stationed in Cam Ranh Bay in a support zone.  I had no nickname and was known as Mary.

What was a routine day like in Vietnam?

Very busy.  We were always on the go.  Each girl in my unit had 6 weeks to prepare a program to take on the road.  All the prep work was done at night at one of the two rec centers (quonset huts).  My last program was called “Wheels” and I was very proud of it.  The soldiers who came to the centers at night always helped create the programs to take to the troops in the field.   They were designed to last 50 minutes and take their minds of the war.  Programs covered a wide range of topics and consisted of three activities: a warm-up exercise, a main activity and a closing activity.  We travelled in pairs by chopper, jeep or truck and usually made 7 stops a day.  The fellows were usually already divided in teams upon our arrival.  The activities were competitive.  Some programs were really fun and others not so, but we always put our best foot forward.  We had to take each other’s programs out.  What amazed me, and I imagine the other women had the same experience, was how creative one became with limited resources.

There was no art supply store to create props for our programs.  There was a PX but no shops to purchase materials.  But somehow when we needed something it would appear.  For example I wanted bright blue paint for the slam board I was making for the main activity of my last program.  Some soldier came up with it for me.  Also someone came up with heavy poster board type paper for the warm up activity (this consisted of license plates with the state name on the front – the troops had to guess the state logo – answer on the back).  On every outing we carried a large (3′ by 4′) army green canvas bag containing our props.  The troops who came to the centers a night helped make the props and were a huge help -at least in my case- in creating the programs.  My main activity on “Wheels” was about the Indy 500.  We had auto magazines in the centers.  I had two nails on my slam board and cartoon type cut outs of autos pasted on the board.  We, I and the troops in the center, made up questions about the Indy 500 and put the answers on small, heavyduty paper discs.  When we arrive at a stop often the men were already arranged in teams – there could be anywhere from 10 to 30 troops at a stop.  Each team got a set of discs.  They would charge up to the same board when they knew the answer and slap the disc on the nail.  Whichever team had the most correct answers on the nail was the winner.  It got a little wild at time – even once as I recall – a little bloody!  It did take their minds off things for a brief while.  Other programs I remember taking out were on Astrology (remember in those days everyone wanted to know “what is your sign?”), English Lit., etc.

I was in charge of refreshment for the centers.  I got to know all the mess sergeants in Cam Ranh and they were great.   Mainly provided cakes and Kool Aid.  Once in awhile I was given a case of lobster tails or steak to take back to my trailer and share!  A super treat!

Once a week two of us would fly to Da Lat to put on a program for our troops.  Da Lat was the R&R base for the South Vietnamese troops.

The hours were long and we worked hard.  We often rose at 3 or 4 AM to hand out donuts to the troops heading out in convoys.

It wasn’t always hard work. We had fun too.  I sat on top of a fire truck and watched the Bob Hope show.  We were invited to the Officer’s Club at Navy Market time.  And I remember being invited to tour and dine on an aircraft carrier.

I also recently played a tape that I had sent to my parents.  I had never heard it before.  I was shocked and have no recollection of waterskiing on Tiger Lake.  I sounded happy.

Did you ever have any “close calls” either on base or in any vehicles?

In Cam Ranh we were probably safer than anyone.  I remember being a little nervous when the MPs picked us up at the center that was several miles from our compound.  We were open to 10PM.  Driving along the bay at night with flares shooting up across the water was a bit unnerving.  Also flying in the choppers seated between two soldiers with machine guns and open doors was an experience.  All in all I was very safe.

Were you ever injured while in Vietnam?

No

What was it like to visit the soldiers in the hospitals?

Again, the hospital I visited was a Quonset hut.  I remember writing letters for some of the patients.  I was only 23 and most of the fellows were 18 and 19 years old.  It was hard to look at some who were seriously wounded but we all carried on professionally.

How was the transition returning home to the United States?

I went home because my father died suddenly.  When I left I said I would be back at the end of my 30-day emergency leave.  Sadly, I think I needed my mother at that time as much as she needed me.  I started commuting to San Francisco (50 miles each way) and was working for the ARC at Letterman General Hospital as a Rec therapist.  I still got to work for the men I respected so much.

What would you like people to remember and understand most about the women who served?

That for the most part we were there to serve and support and that is what the majority of us did.  There were a few rotten apples in the barrel, but for the most part the women I met and became close to were outstanding, modest, fun loving and very hard working.  The troops were always respectful and appreciative.

How do you feel Veterans think of your time having served with them? Have any Veterans expressed their feelings to you directly?

Most express appreciation.  I have only had one unhappy vet who expressed anger toward me because I was a Donut Dollie and while he was in Vietnam he said the Donut Dollies charged for a donut.  I know that was not the case in my unit.

What were your fondest or most interesting memories of your time serving in Vietnam?

Definitely, the people I met.  Some of the soldiers visited me in California after I returned.  They were friends and I will never forget them.  Also, the country itself is one of the prettiest places on the planet. Vietnam was so luscious.  I always imagined what a spectacular resort country it could be and I guess that is what it is today.  My son visited Cam Ranh 4 years ago.  He loved the country.  I would love a chance to revisit.

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Meet Red Cross Donut Dollie Cecelia Burgess Grandison
Published April 8, 2017 by Jim

Meet Red Cross Donut Dollie Cecelia Burgess Grandison

In our sixth edition of the Donut Dollie Detail, Cecelia “Betty” Burgess Grandison tells about serving in Vietnam, her experiences meeting veterans, and about the time she was issued a gas mask to wear when the US force sprayed “tear gas”.

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Please meet Red Cross Donut Dollie Cecelia “Betty” Burgess Grandison…

What prompted you to join the SRAO (Supplemental Recreation Activities Overseas) and want to go to Vietnam?

I was a senior in college at the University of Georgia. I discovered this opportunity through my placement office. I was not sure if the war was right or wrong, but I knew that my male classmates would have to go. I wanted to go to offer a service to them, to find out more about the war, and, yes, for the excitement.

When and where were you stationed in Vietnam? Did you go by a nickname?

In 1968 I served in Phu Loi with the 1st Infantry Division—the Big Red One. I was known as Betty.

 

 

 

What was a routine day like in Vietnam?

There were 2 typical days. One was when we stayed on the base camp to plan programs and to relax a bit. The other was flying by helicopter to the base camps or staying at Phu Loi to present interactive recreation programs. These lasted around 45 minutes after which we would visit a few minutes with the men. Then we moved on to the next group of men. Sometimes we spent the day at a grave yard where a base camp was located, sometimes we went to a base camps at Quan Loi where rubber trees grew, Di An, and Song Be (very near Cambodia).

 

Did you ever have any “close calls” either on base or in any vehicles?

Not that I knew. There were times when we heard incoming fire at night. There was a time where we landed in the mud at Song Be to present one of our programs. While we were there, we witnessed fire from artillery and gunships and one rocket was fired. Once at the above-mentioned grave yard we were given gas masks and told that the US forces were going to be spraying “tear gas”. I became quite ill with acute ulcerative colitis a few days later and wondered if it had anything to do with the “tear gas”. Later when the effects of Agent Orange became known, I wondered if they were spraying Agent Orange. Why would they be spraying ‘tear gas” on our own camp?

Were you ever injured while in Vietnam?

No, but I did get quite ill as I mentioned above. I was in the hospital at Long Binh for 3 weeks before I was sent back home to Fort Gordon in Georgia by way of Japan and Andrews Air Force Base.

What was it like to visit the soldiers in the hospitals?

I visited hospitals twice in my short month. I really preferred this. I believe this experience may have added to my interest in working in health care. I later became a social worker with veterans who were in or affiliated with VA hospitals.

Of course, I experienced the hospital from the patient side. I was there when a young boy died of lock jaw, unheard of in the US. I was the only woman in the hospital, which presented challenges of privacy in a field hospital like the one in Long Binh. I am convinced that I almost died there, but I feel that the care was good. It was truly a life-changing experience. It took away the youthful notion that I was invincible. Later, when I worked with patients, I knew what it was like to be on the patient side of the relationship.

How was the transition returning home to the United States?

Because I returned to the US on a medical flight, I thought that my experience was unique. I had thought that the other Donut Dollies had returned home as a group in the same way that we travelled there, that once at home there was a debriefing. Of course, that was not true. I experienced my return in isolation. There was no recognition and I don’t remember it being discussed. After my recuperation, I found a job working in the local “welfare” office for 2 years. After that, I accepted a position with the Albany VA Hospital. I worked there for 7 years. Later, I moved to NYC where, again, I worked at the VAMC in the Bronx and then Manhattan. For years, I served on a committee to plan an annual seminar, “Still Hidden Client”, for veterans, families, and people who worked with veterans.

What would you like people to remember and understand most about the women who served?

That we served. That we are veterans of Vietnam as much as any member of the armed services, but we were not armed. We suffered the same treatment and emotional problems as any member of the armed services.

How do you feel Veterans think of your time having served with them? Have any Veterans expressed their feelings to you directly?

I know that the veterans valued my work. I had no idea until I went to the annual Memorial Day parade in Washington in 1984. I wore my uniform. I had men tell me how much it had meant that we were there. Again, in 1993, my 67-year-old husband proudly pushed me in a wheelchair (I with a broken kneecap and he recovering from wrist surgery). This was so that I could “march” in the Veteran’s Day Parade, which was in our honour and when the Vietnam Women’s Memorial was dedicated. There were so many signs and well-wishers along the way saying, “Welcome Home”. One man said that he had come to many Veteran’s’ Day parades since he had returned from Vietnam, but this was the first when it had not rained. He felt it was because we were finally included. He said it was the first time that “The Wall” had not cried. That brings to tears to my eyes to this day.

What were your fondest or most interesting memories of your time serving in Vietnam?

While I was in hospital, I was on a liquid diet. I could not eat most of soups offered by the hospital. I made this known to a hospital based Red Cross worker who every night after she had worked all day brought me chicken noodle soup in a thermos. I did not know her name and had no way to write a thank you after I came home. During the weekend reunion of Donut Dollies in DC in 1993, I sought her and asked about her all the time we were there with no success. When my husband and I were leaving the city by Metro, we missed one train. As we were waiting for the next 2 women appeared on the platform, one pushing another one in a wheelchair. I made one last desperate attempt by asking if either of them had been stationed at the Long Binh hospital in August 1968. The one in the wheelchair said that she was. She did not remember her kindness, but she said that it was the kind of thing that she would have done. I cried all the way to our destination. It still brings tears to my eyes. Her name was Barbara Lee Gilbert. We kept in contact until her death in 2001.

The excitement of riding in helicopters. The experience of being so far around the world and the anticipation of adventures in store as the year progressed. It was such a short stay that the illness is the overriding memory of being there. It had the biggest impact.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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